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How to handle the 'just open the app' resistance ADHD?
I handle the 'just open the app' resistance by acknowledging that it's a common obstacle for ADHD adults, and addressing the underlying issues that lead to it, such as lack of clear goals, inadequate routines, and insufficient motivation. We're under-built for systems that assume daily showups, so it's essential to create a system that accommodates our needs. By doing so, we can build a foundation for consistent progress.
We need to understand why we resist opening the app
Resistance often stems from feeling overwhelmed by the app's features, or being unsure about how to use it effectively. For instance, plenty of ADHD adults struggle with digital planners that require a significant amount of setup and customization, leading to frustration and abandonment. By recognizing these challenges, we can take the first step towards creating a more suitable system.
A more effective approach involves starting with simple, manageable tasks and gradually building up to more complex ones, allowing us to develop a sense of control and momentum. This helps to alleviate feelings of overwhelm and increases the likelihood of consistent progress.
Creating an environment that supports consistency
To overcome resistance, it's crucial to establish a conducive environment that fosters consistency and motivation. This can be achieved by setting clear goals, breaking them down into smaller tasks, and creating a routine that accommodates our unique needs. For example, using a physical planner or a specific app feature that provides a sense of structure and accountability can help us stay on track.
By acknowledging our limitations and working with them, rather than against them, we can develop strategies that play to our strengths and help us build lasting habits. This might involve using visual reminders, creating a schedule that allows for flexibility, or finding an accountability partner to provide support and motivation.
Building a system that works for us
Ultimately, the key to overcoming 'just open the app' resistance lies in creating a system that is tailored to our individual needs and preferences. By doing so, we can develop a sense of ownership and investment in our progress, which helps to drive motivation and consistency. The ADHD Executive Function Kit is a useful resource for building such a system, as it provides a structured approach to developing executive function skills and creating a personalized plan for success. You can find more information about it on our buy page.
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